Remember elementary school and your one friend who kept telling you they really like you? They want to be your best friend? They want to play with you every day? Remember when it changed? Now, you ask them out to play, often hearing a reason why they can\u2019t. Maybe they became busy with other friends, maybe they didn\u2019t want to do what you wanted to do; or maybe they just wanted to do something by themselves. So you say, \u00a0“okay, maybe tomorrow.”<\/p>\n
Day after day you ask again, \u201cwould you like to play with me today?\u201d And the same thing happens. They say they really like you and are really your best friend. They are just too busy to play with you today. Maybe tomorrow. \u00a0You think, I miss you.”<\/p>\n
Eventually, feeling lonely, you find your attention turning towards finding new friends. All you want is someone to play with, and soon you are feeling happy and having fun, playing with your new friends.<\/p>\n
Now your best friend sees you having fun with others and they come to you. \u201cWould you like to play?\u201d they ask. \u201cOkay,\u201d you say, and leave your new friends to play with this friend you care so much for. Eventually the same thing happens.<\/p>\n
Slowly, the excuses begin again. They say sorry,\u00a0they just don\u2019t have time to play today. But\u00a0they really like you and they say you are best friends. They extend the promise of possibly tomorrow. Once again, you are alone, while they are too busy for you. \u00a0And you feel sad, and lonely. \u00a0And you think, “I miss you.”<\/p>\n
Fast forward to today. Does your current relationship carry the same overtones? Does your current partner\/friend take the time to share part of their day with you? Do you feel valued, or do you live on promises of tomorrow? \u00a0Are you sad a lot? \u00a0Thinking, “I miss you.”<\/p>\n
You have the Divine right to be happy, and you have the right to be valued. If the above scenario is familiar, perhaps you learned to believe all those years ago that you were not as valuable as others. You learned to de-value yourself. Law of Attraction says, “like attracts like.” \u00a0Others are now being drawn to\u00a0you who also de-value you, and they validate your own low sense of worth. This creates a cycle of difficult relationships.<\/p>\n
But all is not lost. \u00a0You can break the cycle forever.<\/p>\n
Here is an simple way to begin coming back into balance, realizing your fabulous you. Do the following exercise every day for seven days, and watch, as your heart starts to sing, feeling free, loved and appreciated.<\/p>\n
THE EXERCISE:<\/strong><\/p>\n Look in the mirror. Look into your eyes. \u00a0Really take the time, and look. Appreciate your eyes, your smile, your hair. Feel appreciation for everything about yourself. Do this every day, going deeper into the awareness of your kind heart, your great love of others, Feel appreciation for the experiences that made you who you are. Feel appreciation for what you formerly saw as negative, maybe a scar from an accident that taught you something important. Appreciate the way you walk, talk, dress, feel appreciation for everything! Do this exercise every day for seven days, and you will find yourself feeling more worthy and more valuable, more alive and ready to have a good day, every day. \u00a0Do this every day. \u00a0Risk little discomfort for great happiness.<\/p>\n Those who were previously drawn to your low sense of value will not be so drawn to you anymore. \u00a0You will begin to attract people, friends\/ partners who see your worthiness and love you with a respect that matches your newfound self-respect. \u00a0Maybe even the current partner\/friend will see you in a new light.<\/p>\n You have a divine right to be loved by you. \u00a0To be appreciated by you. \u00a0To be respected by you. \u00a0So go first, and show the others the way to a joyful self-appreciating heart. \u00a0Take charge and become your own best friend! You are loved. \u00a0Now go find you!<\/p>\n Until next time\u2026. Namaste from Sharyn Rose<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Remember elementary school and your one friend who kept telling you they really like you? They want to be your best friend? They want to play with you every day? […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":5833,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[8,39],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n