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I was listening to an audio the other day and this question came up. \u00a0Why is easy bad? \u00a0In other words, why is it that if something appears to come easy our world thinks there is something wrong? \u00a0Why, if someone appears to spend little time in action based activities but has it all – they are considered lazy and lucky? \u00a0And we hear things like, ‘their day will come, they will see that they have just wasted themselves and their time.<\/p>\n

Growing up in our action based culture has created in most of us the idea that we must ‘effort’ to get anything we wish. \u00a0We effort so many hours for so much monetary return. \u00a0We believe, ..sincerely believe; that we cannot do better. \u00a0Then, along comes those who appear to just sit and stuff comes to them. \u00a0They smile a lot, \u00a0are respectful, and usually liked by their peers. \u00a0But as nice as they may be, lets face it – they really tick us off.<\/p>\n

Because our mindset is so firmly steeped in cultural beliefs that work equals abundance and that work looks like action – we struggle to change it. \u00a0Therefore we judge and scoff at the lucky ones, jealously watching from behind the doors of our rentals while they live in mansions. \u00a0We decide they must have ties to crime, or they inherited it and we wait… gleefully wait. \u00a0We wait for them to fall and fail and prove they are not any better than we are. \u00a0We wait to satisfy our jealous hearts that we were right all along and they really were just lucky and lazy.<\/p>\n

I have managed to figure some of this out. \u00a0That is my hand holding that cash! \u00a0Cash I won, being lazy, and lucky. \u00a0Or was I?? \u00a0 I will share some of what I know here – feel free to copy any of it. \u00a0I would love nothing better than to see you achieve your hearts desire and have the life of your dreams. \u00a0Here is what I know for sure:<\/p>\n

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  1. You cannot ask and ask and ask some more and get. \u00a0Of course you have to ask – but then you have to take the leap of faith that what you have asked for is coming and change your energy to receiving. \u00a0You relax, go about your life in a joyful way and let it come.<\/li>\n
  2. Sneaky that last line. \u00a0The sneaky part is ‘joyful way’. \u00a0Life is about the journey and not the destination. \u00a0Here is an example – \u00a0 you are out for dinner with a friend – you have just ordered \u00a0a bacon cheeseburger, fries with gravy side, and a chocolate milkshake. \u00a0You place your order with the waiter, (ASK) who delivers it to the kitchen.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Now is the journey part. \u00a0You sit back in the comfortable booth, and anticipate the arrival of your meal. \u00a0You know they make the best burgers and their fries are home made. \u00a0The thick creamy ice cold chocolate shake has been on your mind all day.<\/p>\n

    While you wait you share events of the day with your friend. \u00a0Do you complain, gossip, judge and share stories of how awful your day was? \u00a0Or do you laugh, and share the highlights that made your day great? \u00a0Do you listen to your friend and reach for solutions, or do you just discuss over and over the difficulties you both have? \u00a0Do you continually ask the waiter where your meal is? \u00a0Or do you relax and let it come – (READY TO RECEIVE) knowing it is being prepared for you?<\/p>\n

    Ever notice how some people complain about the very same restaurant you just had the best experience in? \u00a0Yup, you got it – it has nothing to do with the restaurant, but everything to do with how you approach the ASK, and RECEIVING process, allowing the delivery to unfold. \u00a0It has to do with the joy in your heart, the knowing that good abounds, and anticipating the best.<\/p>\n

    Oh and on a last note – for those of you who are suggesting that there are bad restaurants out there? \u00a0Generally it is those not enjoying their life journey that end up \u00a0in them – the others are drawn to the best experiences that match their best attitudes.<\/p>\n

    It is all about the experience, and if you can get to the place where you have created a strong ASK, and can move aside with the faith that what you asked for is coming, enjoying life along the way, then RECEIVING requires no effort.<\/p>\n

    …until next time<\/p>\n

    Namaste from Sharyn<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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